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One Small Step
One Small Step
November can come with a lot of talk about gratitude.
But this month, instead of forcing yourself to feel thankful for everything, we're going to use the candle for something a little more practical.
carolstjamespsychi
Nov 11 min read


Protection & Boundary Affirmation
October naturally makes us a little more curious about things we can’t explain.
Ghost stories. Strange experiences. Things that go bump in the night.
Curiosity is fine.
But curiosity doesn’t require participation.
This month’s candle ritual is about remembering that you get to decide what deserves your attention — and what doesn’t.
carolstjamespsychi
Sep 301 min read


A Summer Slowdown Affirmation
August has a different rhythm.
The days are long, the air is heavy, and even nature seems to slow its pace. Instead of fighting that rhythm, allow yourself to move with it.
Light a blue candle to represent peace, calm, and emotional balance.
carolstjamespsychi
Jul 311 min read


Inner Flame
July candle affirmation
“I act with clarity. I move with purpose. I trust the fire.”
What bold move am I ready to make — and what excuse have I been using to keep holding the match?
carolstjamespsychi
Jul 11 min read


For the Child You Tucked Away
A candle affirmation guide dedicated to the child you tucked away. A guide to accepting reconnecting with your inner child
carolstjamespsychi
Apr 11 min read


How to Choose Your Lucky Charm
How to Choose Your Lucky Charm details instructions for selecting your lucky charm as well as a complimentary candle affirmation guide usefully for creating the mind body connection.
carolstjamespsychi
Mar 12 min read


CSJ Candle Practice 9 Steps to Clarity
Carol's Real Candle Practice Old School Clarity explains the 9 easy steps to develop a candle affirmation practice.
carolstjamespsychi
Jan 311 min read
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